Aspirine101 wrote:Stealthmaster wrote:If she left and there's a little chance you will see her again/she does not feel like seeing you, you should forget about her ASAP, no matter how painful it will be, mate. Music, sports, favourite hobby and a new potential partner can help you in this case.
Edit: nice discussion we have here. Very Sigma, much announced
nono forget is not option :/ i will have chance to see her just not now just need bit of time idk if she will want to see me tho maybe maybe no idk rip she wont even talk anymore with me
if i forget her i will just fall into abyss and be depressed like i was year ago, then i wont be able to do shit, wont even be able to finish school
meh :S dont wanna bother u guys much, i just feel extremely shitty, and all of u are rly kool community, i might not be here a lot but i still remember old times
Trust me, I've been in a similar situation before (not completely the same), and I know another person that was in that situation, that's why I told you what I did. Staying like that is far worse for your depression than moving on. If you stay like this you'll just wail in the deep pit of depression and drown in the abyss of sorrow and obsession. At times it can feel/seem more comfortable than the reality, but you know deep down that it really isn't, and that you're decieving yourself. If you stay like this for a time, it's possible to get out eventually, but it takes a big toll, so better don't even get deeper into it, and move on right now.
Best way to go forward is to focus on making yourself feel good, do stuff, solve problems, have fun, talk to people and other girls, hang around with friends. Nothing helps with forgetting an old girl like a new one.