Since this is now the debauchery thread...
Havent fapped in months. Sex tho, idk 7/8 times a week, sometimes more, sometimes less, depends on the horny level. Wouldnt call it an addiction since im not usually thinking about that kind of stuff 24/7.
Jampula wrote:Above posts, that's just natural and causes no harm to anyone.
"Nymphos/hypersexuals", male or female, on the other hand causes true problems to a relationship.
jamielynn7483 wrote:Only when you have mismatched libidos--thankfully my bf and I are matched perfectly here and sex is never an issue. You can't generalize and say that all hypersexuals will cause problems in their relationship.
I may be hypersexual, but I'm in no way a nympho. They're not the same thing at all. Nymphos act compulsively on their sexual desires, whereas someone who is hypersexual can control their urges.
Jampula wrote:I don't generalize. But usually that seems to be the case and leads to cheating.
And my point remains... I don't see anything wrong if you two are sexually satisfied. But if other partner isn't and wants more, there is a problem.
jamielynn7483 wrote:Jampula wrote:Leads to cheating? What leads to cheating is someone's inability to cope with the situation or to make the right decision (ie: ending the relationship if they're that unsatisfied) I have had 3 other long-term relationships, including a 6 year marriage, with people considered "low-libido" and I never once thought of cheating on them, because I'm not a cheater. Being unsatisfied with a lack of sex isn't anymore of a problem than someone being annoyed with their partner wanting too much sex--I feel like you're making it seem like the person who has the higher libido is the one in the wrong and I disagree. I don't think either party "causes problems" more than the other. But I digress, I think maybe your past relationship troubles is the possible reason for your projection.
Prime_Evil wrote:
*quietly walks away*
jamielynn7483 wrote:Prime_Evil wrote:
*quietly walks away*
Hahaha, you have no idea how true this meme is for me. Sadly, I'm so untrusting I sometimes have this logic and think I'm better off single. Have to talk myself out of this negative thinking.
jamielynn7483 wrote:The irony of this discussion Jampula, is that my ex-husband is the one who cheated.. And he was "low-libido"